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In many works of psychological horror, the paranormal antagonist can be read as a concrete manifestation of more abstract, emotional, or psychological dangers. Unspeakable events or emotions are repressed, hidden under a veil of secrecy, and they then reemerge in the form of a ghost or monster. In Incidents Around the House, the malevolent being known to Bela as “Other Mommy” symbolizes the adult realities that Bela’s parents try to shield her from—including Ursula’s infidelity, her feelings of confinement in the role of motherhood and her subsequent guilt, and both parents’ reliance on alcohol to avoid addressing the problems in their marriage. Lois is correct, near the end of the novel, when she surmises that the entity is connected in some way with the loss of childhood innocence, but she is wrong to think that robbing Bela of her innocence will keep the monster at bay. In fact, it is only after Bela loses her innocence—coming face to face with the repressed anger and secrecy that fills her parents’ lives—that she finally allows the monster into her heart.
Bela often worries that her parents are unhappy and wishes there were something she could do to heal their marriage. When her mother stays out late, she thinks, “I wish Mommy was here to fall even more in love with Daddo” (20). Though her parents believe she is oblivious to the tension in their relationship, worrying about them occupies a huge amount of Bela’s time and energy. When she learns the word “habitat” at the zoo, she thinks about her parents as animals and asks, “Is our habitat, our house, a safe place for Mommy and Daddo?” (90). Notably, she doesn’t worry about whether she is safe at their home, but only about whether her parents are safe. Her priorities indicate how deeply affected she is by their tumultuous marriage.
The arrival of Other Mommy coincides with the decline of Russ and Ursula’s marriage, revealing the role of Other Mommy as an embodiment of Bela’s fears about her family. The first time she appears, she tells Bela “Peekaboo,” and it reminds Bela of her younger days: “Back when I was littler. Back when Mommy was happier, I think her and Daddo made jokes that made each other laugh all the time” (199). Other Mommy initially positions herself as a friend or protector, and she uses Bela’s fears about her parents to tempt her to make the exchange. She offers to fix Bela’s parents’ marriage if they trade places, and Bela is young enough to be tempted by the offer. This moment emphasizes how much of Bela’s life is structured around worrying about her parents, to the extent that she lacks her own sense of self-preservation.
Some of the novel’s horror arises from the way Bela’s parents overshare with her, making her privy to information children wouldn’t normally encounter. Josh Malerman uses their immaturity and self-centeredness to highlight Bela’s vulnerability, as she has no one in her life who can adequately protect her. Russ does the bulk of the caregiving but positions himself as Bela’s best friend rather than a father. He talks philosophically about emotions, but he often fails to recognize Bela’s in favor of prioritizing his: “Ah, Bela. It’s all so different, you know? How you think things are gonna be and how they end up being. […] Am I happy? Yes. Yeah. Sure I am. But I’m also sad” (70). Both parents get high or drunk and sit by Bela’s bed, monologuing about their lives when they think she is asleep. After the novel’s climax, when Ursula reveals that Russ isn’t Bela’s biological father, she expresses these ideas openly in front of her daughter. She laments feeling trapped by motherhood: “Have I told you how many times I just wanted to drop her off at a friend’s house and never come back?” (345). In these final scenes, Malerman emphasizes what is horrific about this fractured and toxic home environment, which proves to be just as dangerous as the literal monster within it.
As Bela’s family grapples with the disturbances caused by Other Mommy, she gradually realizes that the adults in her life, including her parents, are not all-powerful. Like many children, Bela is used to thinking of her parents as wise and assumes that they have the answers, and her realization that they don’t is a key part of the loss of innocence that allows Other Mommy to prey on her. However, after Other Mommy kills Frank, Daddo begins rambling about how they will solve the problem eventually, saying, “Just because you haven’t figured it out yet, doesn’t mean you won’t. Right?” (183). Bela is surprised at his reaction and thinks, “He sounds so nervous. He sounds like he’s no older than me” (183). While her father rambles, her mother sobs off and on in the front seat and offers no solutions to the problem. Since the novel is narrated from Bela’s first-person perspective, readers share Bela’s realization that her parents are flawed individuals who don’t have all the answers.
In contrast to Russ and Ursula’s flightiness, Grandma Ruth angrily calls for the adults to act more responsibly and protect Bela. She tells her daughter, “You think you’re scared, Ursula? Imagine all you’re feeling and tag on an unhealthy dose of realizing your parents can’t protect you like you thought they could” (144). When Bela and Russ try to defend Ursula by saying that she was shocked by Other Mommy, Grandma responds: “She saw her one time and she can barely keep the twine around her sanity. And here Bela said she may have seen her a hundred times” (166). Despite Grandma’s insistence that they need to take responsibility and do their best to solve the problems without hysterics, she is unable to find any answers. She is a stable adult who loves Bela, but she is not powerful enough to protect her. She is eventually killed by Other Mommy, leaving Bela vulnerable.
Though Bela is shaken by her parents’ reactions, it is not until they tell her the truth about her parentage that she finally realizes how flawed adults are. She looks at her parents and Lois around the bonfire and thinks, “Her face is red. She’s shaking. They’re all so scared and embarrassed and full of lies” (338-39). At this point, she decides to lie to them as well, reassuring them that Other Mommy is gone. She says, “I’ll keep telling them. I’ll keep telling them LIES!” (332). Malerman shows that in the absence of adult protection, Bela feels that she must protect herself, which makes her more vulnerable to the danger posed by Other Mommy.
As she and her family grapple with the effects of Other Mommy and her haunting, Bela comes of age and loses her innocence. Malerman portrays this change as a tragedy, highlighting the many ways that Bela should still be a child and showing that it is too soon for her to be dealing with adult problems, such as her parents’ marital issues. This premature loss of innocence leaves Bela vulnerable, allowing Other Mommy—an embodiment of all the unspoken hurts within the family—to prey on her.
While Bela seldom interacts with other children, an early scene with her friend Deb shows the difference between Bela’s life and a normal childhood. The two friends discuss the new school rules as they play on the playground. Their parents are upset because the school will begin checking for weapons—the possibility of violence at school is another frightening reality that the children are forced to deal with. Bela brings up the topic of Other Mommy and asks Deb how she would protect her friend. Deb says, “I would say, Leave Bela alone! And stab her with a sword” (36). Her answer indicates that she is still firmly in the world of childhood playacting with fantasy weapons such as swords. Bela, understanding that Other Mommy is real, insists that there are no swords. In response, Deb is upset and runs for her mother, saying “I don’t wanna play this game anymore” (36). Malerman uses this scene to indicate that Bela is already grappling with real problems at an age when her friends are still devoted to playground games.
In the novel’s climax, Lois insists that Russ and Ursula need to get rid of Bela’s innocence to make her less attractive to Other Mommy. She says, “There’s a purity to being innocent. Being unaware of the bad things in the world. Being unaware of the bad things people can do. Even people close to you. People you love” (320). This moment backfires, causing Bela to lose trust in everyone around her and to give into Other Mommy’s demands in despair. Afterward, Daddo confesses his unease with what happened: “It’s like I can hear it, Daddo says. The echo of it shattering. Something made of glass. And now I feel like I knew all along it was too close to the edge of the table” (339). His confession indicates that he knew that Bela’s trust was fragile but that he and Ursula were not careful with it or with her. When Bela tells him she wants to return home, he is surprised, saying, “[H]ome has been the hardest place of all” (336). This sentence has a double meaning—home has been difficult because of the hauntings, but it has also been hard because Bela’s childhood was not protected and because her parents fought so much. Malerman uses Bela’s loss of innocence as a tragic moment where her parents fail to protect her, making her more vulnerable to Other Mommy’s threats.
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